So many mixed feelings.
http://youtu.be/EisZTB4ZQxY (http://youtu.be/EisZTB4ZQxY)
I don't think u know what mixed feelings means
what else could u possibly feel from that video besides sadness?
Quote from: Cooky on December 05, 2013, 05:14:49 AM
I don't think u know what mixed feelings means
what else could u possibly feel from that video besides sadness?
I know what mixed feelings mean.. I was feeling anger, sadness and still a little happiness that there is people that atleast cared about it and tried to help him.
very cute video, thanks for sharing! xd
stawp the bullies! >:(
Quote from: Experiences on December 05, 2013, 05:27:33 AMI know what mixed feelings mean.. I was feeling anger, sadness and still a little happiness that there is people that atleast cared about it and tried to help him.
the people who helped out were very very few compared to those who did not
which is one of the reasons bullying is so common in schools and stuff
idk how u can feel any happiness from the video
and mixed feelings means conflicting feelings. I guess you are conflicted between feeling sad/angry about the video and feeling happy? not sure how that could be. The message was loud and clear, people don't help stop bullying so people are still gonna be bullied. I'm all for the optimism but I don't think anyone should be feeling happy from the video.
Quote from: Cooky on December 05, 2013, 05:37:26 AM
Quote from: Experiences on December 05, 2013, 05:27:33 AMI know what mixed feelings mean.. I was feeling anger, sadness and still a little happiness that there is people that atleast cared about it and tried to help him.
the people who helped out were very very few compared to those who did not
which is one of the reasons bullying is so common in schools and stuff
idk how u can feel any happiness from the video
and mixed feelings means conflicting feelings. I guess you are conflicted between feeling sad/angry about the video and feeling happy? not sure how that could be. The message was loud and clear, people don't help stop bullying so people are still gonna be bullied.
I shared this movie to share a Message to the community not to have you telling me what I'm doing wrong in your opinion. I dont see how it's wrong of me to feel a little bit Happy that some people helped (aka there is still hope for this planet). We all see things from our own perspective and this is mine, i'd like if you respected that. I got the message, it's showing the horrible truth, what it looks like when someone acually gets bullied. It shows how blind people are to the truth.
Quote from: Experiences on December 05, 2013, 05:48:02 AM
I shared this movie to share a Message to the community not to have you telling me what I'm doing wrong in your opinion. I dont see how it's wrong of me. We all see things from our own perspective and this is mine, i'd like if you respected that.
I never told you that you did anything wrong.
I said I don't know how someone could feel happiness from the video and I don't think anyone should be feeling happiness from the video. My opinion was different from yours obviously but I never told you that yours was wrong. It just surprised me and confused me. I respect your opinion but that doesn't mean I have to agree with it.
Quote from: Cooky on December 05, 2013, 05:52:25 AM
Quote from: Experiences on December 05, 2013, 05:48:02 AM
I shared this movie to share a Message to the community not to have you telling me what I'm doing wrong in your opinion. I dont see how it's wrong of me to ------------------
I never told you that you did anything wrong.
I said I don't know how someone could feel happiness from the video and I don't think anyone should be feeling happiness from the video. My opinion was different from yours obviously but I never told you that yours was wrong. It just surprised me and confuses me.
Well thats how i feel. and you really did make it look like you where wronging me. End of story.
Guys, please lets talk about it more on skype. :(((((( that way the thread doesn't drift into a discussion about opinions you have.
:'(
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:58:57 AM
that way the thread doesn't drift into a discussion about opinions you have.
yeah, a discussion of our opinions would be terrible here on the message board
:/
:/ :/
Quote from: Cooky on December 05, 2013, 06:01:57 AM
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:58:57 AM
that way the thread doesn't drift into a discussion about opinions you have.
yeah, a discussion of our opinions would be terrible here on the message board
:/
:/ :/
they tend to get out of hand and bring out lots of tension between people with different opinions! :c
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:58:57 AM
Guys, please lets talk about it more on skype. :(((((( that way the thread doesn't drift into a discussion about opinions you have.
:'(
He started, ofc i have to answer.
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:58:57 AM
they tend to get out of hand and bring out lots of tension between people with different opinions! :c
So what is this threads purpose if we aren't to post our opinions? I don't see why we cant have a good ol' debate like has been had on many other threads.
Quote from: Cooky on December 05, 2013, 06:07:41 AM
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:58:57 AM
they tend to get out of hand and bring out lots of tension between people with different opinions! :c
So what is this threads purpose if we aren't to post our opinions? I don't see why we cant have a good ol' debate like has been had on many other threads.
as long as emotions are controlled and nobody gets their feelings hurt go for it meng, it just seemed to get a bit heated. I might be wrong though. xd
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 06:22:36 AM
Quote from: Cooky on December 05, 2013, 06:07:41 AM
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:58:57 AM
they tend to get out of hand and bring out lots of tension between people with different opinions! :c
So what is this threads purpose if we aren't to post our opinions? I don't see why we cant have a good ol' debate like has been had on many other threads.
as long as emotions are controlled and nobody gets their feelings hurt go for it meng, it just seemed to get a bit heated. I might be wrong though. xd
Na I'm not mad c: Just serious ^~^
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:33:27 AM
stawp the bullies! >:(
bullying never gonna stop omg
bullies are the reason im homeschooled!!! smh
Quote from: Bombz on December 05, 2013, 08:47:16 AM
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:33:27 AM
stawp the bullies! >:(
bullying never gonna stop omg
bullies are the reason im homeschooled!!! smh
HA HA! NERDDDDDDDDDDDDDD! some home schooled kids might be home schooled for the very reason though. :c
ps im not bully, i just hate bombz
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 10:53:47 AM
Quote from: Bombz on December 05, 2013, 08:47:16 AM
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:33:27 AM
stawp the bullies! >:(
bullying never gonna stop omg
bullies are the reason im homeschooled!!! smh
HA HA! NERDDDDDDDDDDDDDD! some home schooled kids might be home schooled for the very reason though. :c
ps im not bully, i just hate bombz
you cant say you hate someone youre a forum moderator :O
Quote from: gionid on December 05, 2013, 10:58:39 AM
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 10:53:47 AM
Quote from: Bombz on December 05, 2013, 08:47:16 AM
Quote from: Materger on December 05, 2013, 05:33:27 AM
stawp the bullies! >:(
bullying never gonna stop omg
bullies are the reason im homeschooled!!! smh
HA HA! NERDDDDDDDDDDDDDD! some home schooled kids might be home schooled for the very reason though. :c
ps im not bully, i just hate bombz
you cant say you hate someone youre a forum moderator :O
I think by now everyone should know it's a joke, I've never hated bombz. I wouldn't hate someone unless they did something awful to somebody i care about
@kulvinder, anyone classified as a bully should be taught a lesson. There's always someone bigger and badder than you in this world.Bullies just pick on smaller and weaker people because they themselves can't escape the reality that someone around their weight/size can kick their butt. xd
theres nothing even close to that in here
how strange??
Cowardice, laziness, and obliviousness. If somebody doesn't jump in to at least attempt to stop a situation like this, it's because they're afraid something will happen to them, they don't have time for it, or they simply just couldn't give a shit. That's all it is. It's extremely difficult to force bravery and effort into people and I think sharing this video won't do anything. The people who did get up and do something either were acting on instinct or knew that something bad might happen. But they tried to do something anyways, and that's admirable. (To me anyways.) Bullying can never be 100% eradicated, it's a fact by this point. However, walking away like nothing happened (or recording it, like srsly wtf) doesn't help the situation.
I've seen probably well over 50 scenarios like this but only ever stepped in once. And I probably sound like an ass when I say this, but I think sometimes (depending on the situation and the participants) it may be better to do nothing at all. If I was ever getting bullied I would never in my life want somebody to step in. That'd make me feel so useless and weak. I'd much rather endure whatever form of bullying than have somebody else feel sorry for me.
All in all, my opinions are split on this. I'm still not certain of what I'm supposed to do whenever I see things like this.
Quote from: Dannii on December 05, 2013, 06:11:38 PM
Man up and fight back is what I was taught when young ::)
not everyone has the balls to man up and fight back (like me gg) :(
Quote from: Dannii on December 05, 2013, 06:11:38 PM
Man up and fight back is what I was taught when young ::)
me 2
I hate to be the one to do this, but the dude on the scooter at 3:29 OMG LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!
Seriously though, this isn't anything new. Like Dannii said, you have to learn how to defend yourself. If you can't and you find yourself in a situation like that, you hope someone helps, but not everyone will. I agree that watching while a person is being "bullied" isn't necessarily right, but i don't think someone should always expect anyone to come and rescue them. So, if people won't change a person has to. Instead of hoping someone will come to your aid, learn to kick some serious ass on your own.
Quote from: JetSurge on December 05, 2013, 07:38:03 PM
learn to kick some serious ass on your own.
what if you end up getting your ass kicked instead :'(
Quote from: Bombz on December 05, 2013, 07:49:17 PM
Quote from: JetSurge on December 05, 2013, 07:38:03 PM
learn to kick some serious ass on your own.
what if you end up getting your ass kicked instead :'(
that wont happen if ur too badass like me 8)
Quote from: Bombz on December 05, 2013, 07:49:17 PM
what if you end up getting your ass kicked instead :'(
You're not going to win em all my friend. Even the best fall sometimes. So you pick yourself up, learn, and adapt. 8)