It's pretty sad that Brothers relationship are usually harsh. Thats not the way its meant to be. When the older brother is a good and friendly person the little brother will spell some characteristics and maybe grew very alike his brother, liking the same things... This way they probably wouldnt be bff if the age difference is too high but they would built a good relation anyway. I talk this for self experience, i have a 9 years old brother and he is gr8 with me and we ,besides the age difference, CAN have fun together. Thats can be considered an utopia but i dun think so, it can become a reality just depends of the persons involved.
Anyway, cya and hope the relation u have with ur brother gets at least more pacific! From what u stated like each other is impossible but dream smtimes isnt bad! Its Always good to think that things can get better, this thinking motivate us to live!
Didnt know u well but come back soon! Dont left this small community forever D:
Goodbye