Staff are selected based on observed capability. I don't agree with all selections either, but at this point, we have no better pool to choose from.
I'll be honest -- you aren't capable of being a moderator. I know of only a select few so involved with guild matters that can actually undertake the job objectively. You are far too involved with your own guild and, at this point, so is your husband and it is reflecting on his abilities.
This doesn't only bold true for yourself, but several current staff members, of which, if I had the ability, would remove and replace immediately. However, I do not.