Quote from: Cooky on August 05, 2013, 10:32:30 PM
Quote from: Selene on August 05, 2013, 10:14:31 PM
Don't change because people dislike you.. You shouldn't care what people think about you.
maybe the worst advice of all time
a large percentage of succeeding in life is getting others to like you. trying to land a job, getting a promotion, getting into the university you want to, making friends, keeping friends, getting a girlfriend/boyfriend etc are all dependent on making yourself likeable. If you aren't likeable, you should find out why and try to change it, assuming its something that can be changed and people aren't being racist or prejudice against you for unfair reasons.
i agreed until you brought up the friends part.
ofc u should probably act different when it comes to srsbsns like jobs and careers and stuff that can effect that
but when it comes to friends, you should be able to act the way that you normally act. if they cant accept how you are, you need to find new friends. this game is just like the friend situation.
ur not trying to impress someone, so just be yourself until you find someone whos cool with it
fixing bad habits and changing to fit in are 2 different things