Well if you talk to much you give "newbs" satisfaction to drive you off track of important things. :O You can have friends, but most people that nag at mods arent "friends" people that you knew before you were part of staff would be a "friend" :O This is just how i was when I was Developer for LegendGunz back when it was popular
My Point: Staff isnt mean, everyone expects too much of them. Not to mention most of the staff members arent ehmmm... "professionals" with degrees in graphic design and programming and shit you guys know that right? Lol, I mean possibly Kenny or Allie, I wouldn't know. But most of the staff you see in game are kids. (Had to edit and say that, Im not completely sure if most are kids I just presume. Dont flame me and point out staff members that are 18+. I was just saying.... The ones the play more then most.)